Vietnamese Girls: Everything You Need to Know

girl from vietnamVietnamese girls are some of my favorite women on the planet. If you’ve ever thought about dating Vietnamese girls, or already are then you’re in the right place. Their sweet, feminine nature draws men from all over the world to come and visit every year.

I’ve traveled extensively and even lived in Vietnam for a few years, so I have a lot of experience with the local ladies. This is the ultimate guide to Vietnam women and how to date them properly.

Make sure to read until the end of this guide and I’ll cover how to meet them easily, how to date them, and all the ways that foreign guys screw up when dating Vietnamese chicks…

Where to Meet Vietnamese Girls?

Obviously, before you date some girls you’ll have to meet them. There are a few different ways to meet them that I’ll cover. I’ve tried all of them but there’s one tried and true way that is miles better than the rest.

Vietnamese Girls Online

ao daiThe best place by far to meet hot Vietnamese girls is online. There are many sites but I only really recommend one of them. Most are scammy with fake members and other garbage.

Thankfully there’s a really good one called VietnamCupid. I’ve met, dated and had sex with many girls from here over the years, it really is a goldmine. They are really keen to meet foreigners;)

There are also apps but they are garbage in my opinion. There are a ton of ladyboys, bots, fake profiles and flakes. The girls, in general, are poorer quality and they hardly ever respond to messages.

Maybe if you’re a young guy that looks like a male model then you can get some girls on these apps, but for us average looking guys it’s much tougher. Stick with my recommendation where the girls actually respond and are serious about meeting a foreigner.

Click here to read my complete Vietnam Cupid Review

Day Game in Vietnam

Some guys talk about using day game to meet girls in Vietnam. This might work for some guys but it’s probably the worst way to go about it for a few reasons.

The first reason is the Asian culture and shyness. Vietnamese girls are often very shy in public and don’t want to be seen being picked up by a foreigner. A girl that might be very receptive to you online could completely ignore your “pickup attempt” during the day just because the setting isn’t right.

The second reason is that it’s inefficient. Going around and approaching takes time. Time is money, and using technology to reach a huge amount of girls in a short time is the way to go. This is why I recommend guys take advantage.

Another reason is that you have to be pretty good looking to pull off day game in Vietnam. If you’re an older or average looking guy, or both like me lol, then stick with online. Trust me the girls are far more receptive and are actually looking for a guy, unlike on the street where you have to put in 10 times the effort.

Bars and Nightclubs

ladies at barAgain I wouldn’t really recommend nightclubs as a way to meet girls in Vietnam. The girls have their “bitch shields” up and get satisfaction about shooting down guys. Good looks, money, and status are mandatory if you’re gonna pull in Vietnamese clubs. A lot of the same chicks can be found online and are more receptive there.

Plus you have to consider the added expense. Although Vietnam is a pretty cheap country, going out to clubs is expensive. If you wanna pull the hottest girls bottle service certainly helps, plus entry fees and other drinks.

Compare this to online where you can reach infinitely more girls for less time and less money.

Northern Vs Southern Vietnamese Girls

When dating Vietnamese girls, one question guys have is about the women in different parts of the country. In particular, Saigon (Ho Chi Minh City) vs Hanoi women is a hot topic. I’ve lived in both cities so I can shed some light on the topic.


If I had to sum up the women of the North I would say that they are more conservative and take more effort when dating. This could be good or bad depending on your intentions. If you want a wife then Hanoi might be the perfect place to find her.


Southern girls are not that different, although there are a higher number of promiscuous women. If that’s not your thing, don’t worry there are still plenty of good women. For the playboys though, Saigon is heaven on earth.

Vietnamese Women Appearance

What do Vietnamese girls look like? Beautiful. But seriously, they generally have slim appearances with curves in the right places. I would rate them slightly higher than Thai girls when it comes to the body. Their faces are also generally good with some real stunners in the mix if you’re in Ho Chi Minh (Saigon).

Plastic surgery and body enhancement are less popular in Vietnam than Thailand, so Viet girls will generally have more natural beauty and wear less makeup. This can be a bonus for a lot of guys, it sure is for me!

Are Vietnamese Girls Easy?

saigon nightlifeSomething lots of guys want to know is how fast Vietnamese girls put out. This really depends on what you’re used to. If we look at it from a western perspective, most “good girls” in Vietnam put out at an average speed with most taking 2-3 dates.

If we compare them to Thai women, on the other hand, they will seem prudish. Thai girls are very easy going about sex and 95% of my first dates in Thailand have ended in sex. This works out well for me and all the other guys that spend a lot of time there.

Of course, there are still plenty of girls that put out on the first date in Vietnam, especially in Saigon, there’s just less of them overall compared to say Thailand.

Are Vietnamese Girls Loyal in Relationships?

One major benefit of Vietnamese girls is that they are quite loyal. If I was going to try and find a wife then I would be looking in Vietnam for sure. They are kind, sweet and really know how to take care of their man. They have real traditional values that are gone in the west. Overall if you’re looking for something serious then Vietnam is the best country in the region to find it.

Tips for Dating Viet Girls

First Date in Vietnam

What you do on the first date will depend on the type of woman you’re meeting, as well as your intentions. If you’re meeting a party girl then going to a bar/club is the logical choice. You also want to be aggressive and go for sex as she most likely is open to it.

On the other hand, if you’re meeting a good girl then the chances of sex are much lower. You can just do a quick coffee date in the afternoon. Or if you like her you can do something more fun like go have a picnic in the park.

Meeting a Vietnam Girls Family

Because Vietnamese people are so traditional they have very strong family values. The family is very important and many good girls in the area live at home with their parents. If you date a Vietnamese girl you’ll be expected to meet her family after it starts to get even remotely serious.

Learn the Vietnamese Language

flagIf you can learn to speak Vietnamese you will be very successful with women in Vietnam. Here’s a fact about expats in South East Asia. Around 95% will never get to a fluent level in the language of the country they stay in.

That’s simply because of the sheer amount of effort it takes to learn a language like Vietnamese, which is ass backward to English. It took me a long time just to get to a novice level of Thai. I don’t really blame guys for not trying to learn though, it is a major time suck.

If you are able to get fluent though, which might take 1.5-3 years of consistent study, you’ll be ahead of 95% of foreign guys in the country. Even in the big cities, around 80% of the people speak poor English. If you can communicate with them in Vietnamese then you have access to MILLIONS of potential girls that other guys don’t.

This is a massive edge and can get you more women than you ever thought possible. If you can’t commit to learning it’s still fine though, there are plenty of chicks that speak good English. I don’t speak any Vietnamese and I still do very well.

In Conclusion

The women in Vietnam are simply incredible. I always try to visit the country once a year and will continue to do so for many years to come. If you follow the tips in this guide you’ll be ahead of 90% of guys when it comes to the dating here.